Gravy hides onion in three places at once: the drippings from a bird roasted on onions, the wheat flour roux, and the stock cube. Bread sauce is worse in its own way — milk infused with a whole onion studded with cloves, thickened with white bread.
The fix: roast the bird on a rack over carrots and celery stalks instead of onions. Thicken with cornflour. Use a stock you have checked or one made from the giblets with herbs. For bread sauce, infuse lactose-free milk with cloves, bay and a few spring onion greens rather than an onion, and thicken with gluten-free bread.
Brussels sprouts are low-FODMAP at about 2 sprouts and high in fructans above that — one of the tightest limits of the meal, on a dish people take generously. Cauliflower cheese is worse: cauliflower is high in mannitol at any practical portion, and the sauce adds a large milk dose on top.
The fix: take two sprouts and make up the volume in roast potatoes, carrots and parsnips. Replace cauliflower cheese with a broccoli gratin at 75g, built on lactose-free milk and cheddar. Red cabbage braised with a little vinegar is traditional and limited to about 75g.
Sausages are the quiet problem of a Christmas plate. Most contain wheat rusk as a binder and onion and garlic powder as seasoning, and pigs in blankets get eaten several at a time because they are small. Bacon itself is fine.
The fix: buy gluten-free sausages and read the label for onion and garlic — some premium butchers make a plain pork sausage that qualifies. Otherwise wrap bacon around something else, or skip them and spend the allowance on something you would rather have.
This is the part of the meal with no good workaround. Christmas pudding, mince pies, Christmas cake and stollen are all built on raisins, sultanas, currants and mixed peel, usually with apple in the mincemeat. Drying concentrates fructans and excess fructose several-fold, and these are not foods where a smaller portion gets you under a threshold — the whole item is dried fruit.
The fix: spend the dessert allowance somewhere else. A meringue with strawberries and cream, a citrus posset, dark chocolate at around 30g, or a pomegranate-scattered fruit salad all work and look suitably festive. Brandy butter on something else is fine — it is mostly butter and sugar.